Pearls and love

Did you know that pearls are associated with love? That's why they've been long associated with brides. Think of Venus, the goddess of love, emerging like a beautiful pearl from the oyster shell.

Painting by Botticelli, 15th century.

Pearls by Pearls Melba, 21st century.

Which pearl is the right pearl for me?

Sometimes people ask this, thinking that there is some definitive answer about the "best" pearl. Is it the biggest one? The most expensive one? The white one? The black one? The one that's been in the oyster for the longest?
How do you know?
The answer is to hold the pearl, or strand of pearls, up against yourself in a mirror and see which ones suit you best. Which pearl looks like it comes alive against your skin? Which pearl is the one you can't possible leave without? Which is the one that makes you smile?
That will be the best pearl for you. Not for everyone. Just for you.